'Eight-person relationship' - 8 people should be connected and 9 types of people should not socialize

1. Ancient people have taught six things to avoid, if anyone can do it, it will succeed

The ancient words that teach and pass on to us for thousands of years, are all valuable lessons that the predecessors have concluded.

Grandparents have not taught us that "choose friends to play", if we choose good friends, then surely our lives will be successful because there are good friends who are always willing to help, but if we are connected With bad friends, you know the outcome.

In the Qing dynasty used to be a famous person in the "great fame" of the imperial court, Tang Quoc Phien. useful in making friends. He once said that meeting a good friend, generous, must use "honest, righteous, not around winding, suspicious unfounded" but treated. At the same time, he also coined the principle of associating friends "Eight people are not assigned - 8 people should join and 9 people should not socialize".

I. 8 types of friends we should associate with

1. Make friends with people more than you

In life, if we can make friends with successful people and be better than us in every way, nothing is as precious. When making friends with them, you can learn more new things and gain knowledge, it is really useful.

2. Make friends with virtue

If you get along with people with virtuous qualities, your personality will be greatly changed because virtuous people often have a peaceful, friendly spirit to treat people very well and often. seldom lose heart

3. Make friends with interesting people

An interesting, happy person will always be happier with your life, our lifestyle and thoughts will be more positive, always going forward. Connecting with them will help our knowledge and experience enrich, making our lives more enjoyable.

4. Communicate with those who accept the loss for themselves

In today's life, most people only think about their own interests but ignore the benefits of others, so if there are people who care and bear their loss, don't be hesitant but make a connection. you with them Volunteers who sacrifice themselves because of an unusual person who is very knowledgeable about life, things that are often difficult to shake them. Be friends with these people to learn how to deal with people in life.

5. Make friends with straightforward people

Those who are straightforward, unafraid, are often very honest, how can they say that they never know to flatter anyone. Every time someone meets a miserable person, they are always ready to help out without thinking and who will pull you back if you go on the wrong path, having such a friend is still valuable.

6. Communicate with people with great aspirations

The three armies can win against each other, they cannot change their direction. A disinterested person, who has no direction for his life will certainly be a trivial life. Making friends with people who are broad-minded, can make us define our direction and strive to implement it.

7. Communicate with someone who always helps others

A person who is always willing to help others in difficult times, miserable and unaware of the benefits is truly respectful.

8. Make friends with sympathetic and forgiving people

When we argue a problem with a friend, if the person sympathizes and ignores us to become friends again like nothing has happened, it is a good friend and when At their side you will always feel comfortable.

II. 9 types of people should not socialize

1. Do not socialize with people who are not like-minded

In life we ​​will meet a lot of different people, and among those people, find yourself who share the same direction and goals to strive for, and those who disagree are absolutely should stay away, and should not be reluctant to yourself because it will make you feel uncomfortable for a long time.

2. Do not socialize with people who flatter

Those who are flattering or must-have are those who do not have their own self-contained, no purpose to strive for. People like that often live very artificially, laughing in front of them, laughing behind their backs, they gather together, sell canopy to speak ill behind you.

3. Do not associate with people who reverse resentment

These people often change white instead of black, flip their faces like turning books, gratitude and death, not rationalizing, that this day is hostile, tomorrow intimacy, impermanence, absolutely can not make friends.

4. Do not communicate with people who are not filial

Filial piety is the first. A person who does not respect his parents, so how can he really treat other people honestly? Such a person is unbelievable!

5. Do not socialize with conservatives

Conservatives, stubborn people often have a narrow vision and negative lifestyles, so if we connect with these people, our lives will become negative according to them.

6. Do not socialize with horsemen

The ancient man said: He does something illegal, not yet a small person; but seeing people who are in danger, inheriting harm, must definitely stay away. Communicating with this class of people is only a hundred harmless.

7. Do not socialize with other people who win

The person who occupies the comfort of others has certain disadvantages: greed and short-sightedness. These are also two types of great toxicities of life. Communicating with this type of person, it not only makes me suffer, but will also inadvertently make me become greedy and short-sighted like them.

8. Do not socialize with people who are arrogant

The virtuous people are arrogant and arrogant, and despise others. The person without virtue is a small man, who is impermanent. Being friends with this type of person, must use the benefits to maintain. When you are no longer valid, they will immediately turn around, kick you out.

9. Do not socialize with people who have no personality

Here comes the style or your own point of view, how to say it, catch it first. Communicating with them, will make your will turn into a weak, flowing water.

The conduct of the friendship of the National Sangha, which is composed of great wisdom, is worth it for us to follow.