Why don't men like independent, strong women?

If you use two words " strong " and " independent " to describe your personality, be prepared that most likely men will not like you.

Most women see themselves as "young girls" in pain, and men who look in the mirror see their reflection as knights with shining armor. .

Blame a patriarchal society!

Since time immemorial, men have been associated with the image of the knight Hercules, which makes them think they become extraordinary and take the form of gods.Apparently, they always thought they deserved a score of 10 regardless of any defects.

If you are a woman, I am sure you will widen your eyes in surprise after reading these lines. Either way, everyone will have such a reaction, so I write these lines to make it clear for you to see a true and cruel truth.

Men do not like strong, independent women because their roles are almost gone now, they no longer have princesses to rescue.Their " ego " will not be developed and revealed. Therefore, men need women, or rather, they need a girl who knows how to care and protect.

Perhaps, we are wondering why women today would rather make themselves " stupid " than " single " right? Please think again. If you're not naive, men won't waste time chasing you.

Really, it's hard to believe it's true, isn't it? - Of course it is.

Many people may disagree with what I am saying here. But perhaps, you will ever read the book " Why Men Love Bitches " or think of yourself as " a strong, independent woman " - a person You can control the "roller coaster" of your life because the man they choose cannot stay with them.

However, let me tell you this, I myself have been reading those pages since I was in college and can someone help me remember when the book was published? Malicious advice in it only suits a few ladies, and for the girls of the Millennials of the century - the generation that grew up with social media - who every day travels through " borders " of things that no one else knows, I don't think so.

From what I learned when I was in adulthood, I realized that society accepts men as "creatures" that create intellectual and deceptive psychological games, while women are Emotion-filled boxes are elaborately wrapped with eye-catching covers. Can this universe be more fair?

The problem here is, if a woman is more intelligent and mature than a man, it's more likely that the man will doubt his value. And this is not what society teaches him because men hate having to doubt themselves.
I said yes, guys? Men hate to be intimidated, especially by women. Is that true or not? So they would rather follow a silly but silly girl who could make them feel like a "superhero" , rather than following a smart woman to make them inferior.

If only the man learned how to love and accept a strong, independent woman who was willing to give anything she had without asking for her compromise of strength and independence. for the sake of relationship, then the world will become a love paradise.

But the irony here is that only a few men can master the art of flirting with women, brave men, not afraid to challenge the "rules" of patriarchal society. I agree with those men. There are other men who have never experienced pain before they can learn one of the "greatest" lessons in life. Good luck, guys.

If you find yourself a strong, independent woman, don't be afraid to show it outside and be proud of it. Walk around the world on your own as you can light the fire in your soul. There is nothing wrong or shameful when you're still alone, it's just having someone to share the joy with, making the sky brighter regardless of the wind and storm.

The article was translated from sharing by Anne Deborah Austria posted on the Thought Catalog page.