The easiest way to turn enemies into friends

There are many reasons why a person might hold a grudge against someone, such as being emotionally hurt, or having their position at work threatened. Regardless of the reason, having an enemy is always an unpleasant situation. Luckily, you can turn your enemy into a friend. Here are some simple ways to mend a relationship that are available to everyone .

Sincere apologies

Have you ever heard an apology like this: "I'm sorry if I offended you," or "I'm sorry but…". This type of apology will not work if you want to turn an enemy into a friend. You must sincerely apologize for your part in the dispute, even if you feel you were not at fault. You must take full responsibility for it. You should say "I'm sorry."

Forgive that person

Let the other person know that you forgive them for hurting you. Do it sincerely. They may still hold a grudge against you for a while. But if you are patient and maintain an attitude of forgiveness toward them, they will eventually respond to your desire for reconciliation and peace.

 

Focus on their good qualities

This may be hard to believe, but most people have at least one good quality if you look hard enough. When we argue and fight with people, it is easy to focus on the negative aspects of that person. This prevents us from seeing the good in them. Try to get out of this pattern and you will be able to see the good qualities in them again. Focus on this. Praise them sincerely for the qualities you see.

Speak well of them and resist the urge to gossip.

This is an important step. Gossiping about others, especially about enemies, comes so easily to us that it takes a special effort to resist. To make this person your friend, you must do the same. When you talk about your enemies to others, speak well of them. What you say about others behind their backs will eventually reach them. When you respect them in this way, they will want to reciprocate.

Discover what you both have in common

Whether it's a love of a sport or a similar hobby, tapping into a common interest is a great way to connect with your future friend. Get them talking about themselves and their interests. Invite them over to a game. Try to get them involved in a hobby with you.

Above are the simplest ways to mend a broken relationship . If you have more methods to turn enemies into friends, please share them!