10 absolutely useless things to eliminate right in your life

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Sometimes in life, you feel you can't control everything well. You feel like a puppet being controlled and always want to be free but don't know how to do it. That is indeed extremely simple.

An Tinh prayer ( Serenity Prayer ) said:

To be able to control your life, you need to learn to eliminate bad habits, especially the 10 absolutely useless things below:

1. Bad guys

In my opinion - the author of the article, this is probably the most important thing. Why? Because bad guys can cause a lot of trouble for you like anxiety, violence, hatred, guilt, imposition, evaluation of others and more.

Dr. Lillian Glass has a great book called ' Toxic people ' on this topic that you should read. The book offers countless examples of how people can affect you, how to deal with many different levels of malice and those who are mean. They can be " stabbed behind you " to win your job, the mean boss always beats your self-esteem or a mother always lowers her child. There are about 40 different types of evil people who can destroy you . Free yourself from such people.

2. Worry

Worry is useless . Anxiety does not mean being careful. There is always a clear line between them, so make sure you don't pass it. When taking a picnic, prepare yourself to deal with any situation, but if you are too worried, you will make yourself miss other good things. You cannot prevent accidents that may occur with anxiety. Sometimes you can put yourself in trouble. So don't worry, be more cautious .

3. Violence

Violence will tear your soul from within . It is a gap of sadness and it is difficult to eliminate. However, you must do it. There is no way to deny aggression but by eliminating troubles, you can also avoid extremes.

Martin Luther King Jr said a very famous sentence:

4. Revenge

Retaliation may be a good thing, but of course not the type of ' network change '. As Frank Sinatra said: ' Success is the best revenge .' All revenge makes you become like the one who attacked you .

Surely it would be comfortable to make someone endure what he does to others? But also so, you become more like that person.

5. Guilt

What is guilt? It is the feeling of wrong actions or we think is wrong. However, think carefully about it and you will see two obvious solutions: one, fix the wrong thing or realize that you can't do anything else and two, let it go.

6. High expectations

When it comes to high expectations, that does not mean that you should quit school and go to work in a bar, which is a high expectation in general. Don't expect everything to be great. Feel free to relax and have fun.

Don't expect your son to be a great football player just because you are like that. Let your son have his own choice. You can expect but don't be too blind.

7. Jealousy

Jealousy ruins you from within . It absolutely does not make you better, even the person you envy sometimes does not even know your existence. The best way to eliminate that is to use it as a catalyst.

Instead of becoming jealous of someone, make them a model to study . Recognize what you envy with them and try to achieve it.

8. Pleasing everyone

Paolo Coelho has a great saying in The Alchemist : ' Most people often get angry when someone doesn't do what they expect. People often have clear ideas about how others must live instead of caring for themselves . '

Forget the desire to please everyone because they do not live your life and even they do not know who you are, will not mind if you have trouble.Remove what others want from you and become the person you want .

9. Evaluate others

Pleasing everyone is closely related to evaluating people and having false standards. We value people because they do not match our view of how they talk, behave, think and look.If you don't want to be judged by yourself, stop evaluating others .

10. Misleading standards

Misleading standards are the beginning of hypocrisy .

As Oscar Wilde said:

The purpose of these standards teaches us how to live and enjoy when we are ourselves . But follow the wrong standards. It is not relevant or makes you better, it simply makes you miserable. And when you look closely afterwards, you will only see the consequences of evaluating others.

Free yourself. Some people think that these things are a great advantage or strength. However, there will be times when we need to become stronger to know it is time to remove them from our lives!

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