When you know how to accept yourself, how wonderful life will be

I admit it. I'm good enough, I'm smart enough and I don't mind how people think I am! I am an introverted guy who likes in quiet places. I used to hate myself. All that stuff is not a man but a woman. I want to be a guy that everyone must " rush " and pay attention to. If only I could appear more confident in front of people, THEN they would care about me.

The truth is, I don't want to use what's more than what I want. I'm always stuck in fear, doubt and shame about myself, not realizing my true potential. However, instead of trying to be someone who is not me, I now recognize and accept myself . You can also do like me. When I started doing this, 10 great things in life came to me.

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1. See new opportunities

When you realize how good you really are, there will be lots of doors open before you, because you are the one who can pass through those doors. Everyone has unique things that contribute to this diverse world. Normally, we cannot see those opportunities because we are caught up in what we think we should do.

2. Be more aware of the world around you

Your mind becomes clearer and more focused when you stop thinking about who you are . You can help others and see their problems as their own, not your own. You start to understand the truth of things without just judging them based on your personal point of view. You will see this world in its own way.

3. Don't see yourself as a failure

I used to believe that in reality, I was a failure. If there is a definition of failure, I am sure that I am that definition. But the truth is, we try to do a lot of things in life and not everything will go the same way as we planned. No one can do everything perfectly and when everyone has achieved certain success, they have failed many times before.

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4. Live in reality

I wish I realized this sooner. I used to live in the future. At any age, I want to be older. Then, when I was a year older, I wanted to grow old again. I think I will achieve what I set by the age of 30.When accepting yourself as what you are, you will enjoy your life right now .

5. Meet many people like you

When you stop trying to become someone, you will begin to realize that there are really many people who have the same thoughts, views and personalities as you. You will quickly realize that people are basically the same and want to do the same things you want.

6. Attracting the right people

I am not talking about what will happen or sit alone and think the way you want. But when you accept yourself, more people will accept you. In other words, the right people will " attract " you when you see your best qualities because you show them those qualities. And those who love the good qualities of your people will come close to you. They are the right people for you both in terms of friends or men and women.

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7. Stop comparing yourself to others

In the past, I wanted to become stronger, more beautiful, more interesting, more successful. Compare myself to the people I want to be and when I don't live up to these standards, I feel life is difficult. I often forget that the people I want to become have their own problems and struggle with what they want.

8. Be grateful for what you have

You will stop complaining about everything you do not have and recognize the simple things you have. Remember that many people in this world are willing to change positions with you.It's hard to be grateful if you are not happy with life , but try to be grateful for some of the things you have, you will find this life much more meaningful.

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9. Live an interesting life

The world is a large and complete place for anyone. You will start your exciting life and no longer worry about how others think about you, focusing on how to solve problems . When you accept yourself, life will become easier, something you will never think about and maybe you will discover what you are good at but you didn't expect before.

10. Love yourself every day

This is the most difficult lesson I have learned. I always think that I need to change and help others. In fact, I need to change to know who I am. I need to deal with my own problems before I can really help others. Tell yourself that you should love yourself , because you really have to love yourself, then you can open your arms to people around you.

Many of us are stuck in fear, doubt and shame, which prevents us from realizing our true potential. When we accept that we are ordinary people, it is easier to accept who we are. Everyone has something to " provide " this huge and rich world. And you too!

Author Shawn Mckibben posted an article on LIFEHACK.

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2. 20 real life lessons that help you live better and more meaningful
3. 14 things people with strong will often do to achieve success

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