Don't rush to judge others when you don't understand the facts

Don't judge a book by its cover - Don't judge a book based on its cover.

So is man. We often judge a person based on their looks but rarely understand that, behind that face, that smile, that gaze or their strange behavior is a world full of worries. thought, thoughts, concerns or sorrows that only they can understand. They are "playing" the part of their shoulders and sure enough, they did well. You, too, are in a play called "life", so don't just rely on what they say or their actions to judge. No one would claim to be strong and smiling enough when criticized by others, especially unfounded criticism.

Life has a lot of things going on that we can't understand the nature of. Therefore, there is no shortage of times because of the rush, we have given judgments to judge others, making things worse and finally, when we realize the truth, it is too late. The story below is a reminder for each person: never judge based on subjective thinking but consider all aspects.

Once Confucius went from Luo to Qi to study with some of the best students, including Nhan Hoi and Tu Lo.

At that time, the war was constant, people were wrong, hungry and the Confucian teachers were in such a situation. Although many days still have to starve, lack of water but no one complains and laments. Fortunately, when I arrived in Qi land, a rich man had long listened to the name of Confucius and gave him a little rice. Khong Tu immediately assigned Tu Lo to lead the disciples to the forest to search for vegetables, while Nhan Hoi took the responsibility of blowing rice.

After Tu Lo led other people to the forest to find vegetables, Nhan Hoi cooked rice at the kitchen, while Confucius lay reading. While thinking about each word, a "draw" from the kitchen came up, causing Khổng Từ to stop reading. When he glanced down, Confucius saw Nhan Hoi slowly open his face, taking the chopsticks to feed the rice into his hand, grasping the small fist and putting it in his mouth. Seeing this, Confucius was extremely disappointed, faced up in the sky and complained: "Oh, my outstanding pupil, but went to eat awkward and awkward like this? put on it, it will melt into smoke! "

After a while, Tu Lo and the other students brought the vegetables back and after boiling the vegetables, they all invited Confucius to go home to eat. Confucius sat up and said, "Dear children! We go from the Hole to the miles of miles, I am very happy because in this situation of poverty you still keep your heart clean, still love and embrace each other and follow a teacher, today, the first day to Qi land, it is very fortunate that my teachers and I have a meal, which makes me feel so sorry to my homeland and parents . Want to plow a bowl of rice to worship your parents, the children said it should be reasonable?

All disciples, except Nhan Hoi, joined their hands and said, "Yes, my teacher, so please". Confucius said: "But do not know if this pot is clean?"

At that time, Nhan Hoi politely said: "Yes, Teacher, this rice pot is not clean. When the rice is cooked, open it to see if the cooked rice has been cooked, unfortunately a wind comes in, soot and dust are on. The house fell down and stained the rice cooker, and I quickly turned it around but did not make it in. After that, I came up with the dirty rice, I tried to throw it away, but I thought: the rice is less, you will be crowded, if you leave the rice layer, you will go out, if you remove the rice If this is dirty, I will lose a meal, you must eat less, so I have allowed you and all my brothers to eat before the dirty rice, and the clean rice to offer you and all of you I . Teacher, so I have eaten today . now, I ask for permission not to eat rice, I only eat the vegetable part. And . Teacher, the rice cooker was eaten first. Should not be cozy anymore! ".

After Nhan Nhan finished speaking, Khong Tu lamented: "Alas! So in this world, there are things that my own eyes can see clearly and still do not understand the truth! Alas! Nearly, this Confucius becomes you guys! ".

So, do not rush to judge or criticize others when you have not really understood their actions.