How do you connect to the control server?
On the server (running Windows Server 2008 R2 or Windows with RSAT), open Server Manager
Right-click Server Manager and select Connect to Another Computer
Remote computer management in Windows Server 2008 R2 Picture 2
In the Connect to Another Computer window, type the name or browse to the server you want to connect to.
Remote computer management in Windows Server 2008 R2 Picture 3
If you want to keep the remote connection and do not want to reconfigure the admin server name after each time, you can open a new MMC window, add the Server Manager snap-in, connect to the administrative server and save Repeat this snap-in.