Train these 10 habits, you will become more attractive in the eyes of others

Some people immediately make us feel like they're important. Some people make us feel special from the first meeting. There are also some people who become shining in the eyes of others even though they just walk across the room.

We cannot know what makes them so, but one thing that everyone is certain is that "natural attraction" is what these people are fortunate to possess.

Unfortunately, "naturally attractive"   lost very quickly if not nourished.

However, some people are not affected by this rule. They possess amazingly powerful endings: They build and maintain strong relationships, they always influence (in a positive way) people around, they constantly make others feel get better things about them. They are the type of people who want to stay close and want to be like that.

So how to become attractive? It does not lie in the level of success, presentation skills, dress or beauty outside - it lies in what we do and here are 10 habits that you can practice if you want to achieve attractive.

1. Listen more than say

Make a question. Maintain eye contact. Smile. Frown. Nod. Answer - not by mouth but by body language.

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All these things will make others feel that they are important.

When you speak, do not give advice unless asked. Because if you do the opposite, in most cases. you all turn yourself into the center of the story, not the opposite. So listening will show you care more about your opponent than trying to be told.

Do not you believe it? So who is it to say "This is what I will do" ? Are you or the person opposite?

Remember to say only when you have something important to say and always identify important things to the other person, not you.

2. Listen selectively

Some people - I make sure you know - are not able to hear anything spoken by non-caste people or rather they are not valued.

Certainly, when you talk to them is like "duckling water" because they don't really hear you say anything.

Attractive people are the opposite, they listen to almost everything other people say. They are friendly to everyone regardless of status or social status, making us feel like we have something in common with them.

3. Ignore the junk

Do not check the phone. Don't glance at the screen. Don't focus on anything else, even if it's just a moment of distraction.

You can never connect with others if you are busy paying attention to things around you.

Give them the gift of your complete attention. If you do that, people will want to be close and remember you.

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4. Give it in before and never ask for it

Never think about what you can get. Focus on what you can bring to others. Giving away is the only way to establish a real relationship.

Concentrate, even if only part or a moment into what you can get from the other person, will make them feel that the only person important to you is you.

5. Don't show up as an important person

People who are impressed by your money, material or flashy appearance are also people who like money, material and beautiful style.

The rest were not impressed by that. On the contrary, they feel uncomfortable, uninterested and not comfortable at all.

If you are like that, you will become very hated when entering the room.

6. Consider other people more important

You already know what you know. You know your opinions, views and views. If these belong to you, they are no longer important. Because, you will not learn anything new from what you have understood so well.

But you cannot fully understand what is in someone else's mind. And everyone, regardless of who they are, knows things that you don't know.

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7. Make others stand out

We all like to be praised and praise is never enough.

If you don't know what they have done well or what stands out, it's embarrassing. You must find out and prepare this information yourself first.

When you do that, they not only appreciate your compliments but also appreciate your interest in what they have done. Certainly, they feel a little more proud of themselves and feel more important in the conversation.

8. Choose words to say

The words you use all affect others.

For example, don't say you have to go to the meeting and tell you to go see other people. Don't say you have to create a slide to give a presentation to a new customer, but say you have a chance to share great things with your friends. Don't tell me you have to go to the gym, but practice workout to improve your health and fitness. Don't tell me that you have to interview candidates, but say you have the opportunity to choose great members to join your group.

We all want to connect with perfect, enthusiastic and happy people. The words you say can help others feel better about themselves and also make you feel better about yourself.

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9. Don't talk about other people's failures

In essence, we all like rumors and gossip.

The problem is, we don't like and disrespect those who spread those rumors.

Don't laugh at others. When you do that, it is your neighbors who will suspect that at some point, you will laugh at their shortcomings.

10. Sincerely acknowledge your mistake

Successful people are often said to be attractive because they succeed. Their success seems to create "halo" like light.

The emphasis here is "seems" and that's just the way it seems.

To be charismatic, you don't have to be a successful person, but you have to be honest . Be humble, acknowledge mistakes and fix.

People do not laugh at your failure. They laugh because they see you share honestly and trust in them.