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How can you get acquainted, catch up with a certain girl (or boy)? How to unite two strangers to become closer, even love each other immediately?
In response to this problem, psychologist Arthur Aron has dedicated himself for 20 years of his life to compose 36 extremely special questions for you to use in stages of love. And it was great that Arthur succeeded in connecting a man and a woman to each other, just by sitting opposite and they asked each other as well as answered 36 questions on the above. To reduce stress during the questioning and answering process, this love interview is divided into 3 parts. Of course both participants have to shy away and share truthfully even though they are the most secretive things. After completing the questions, they were asked to look into each other's eyes for 4 minutes and say nothing more.
And after only six months after that meeting, the couple approached marriage, a complete end to anyone.
You wonder and don't believe? Experiment with yourself to see how effective it is.
Stage 1: Learn
1. If you choose anyone in the world to eat dinner with, who would you choose?
2. Do you want to be famous? If yes, how would you like to be famous?
3. Before calling someone, do you practice what you will say before you practice? Why did you do that?
4. What will your perfect day look like?
5. When was the last time you sang to yourself? What about singing in front of others?
6. If you live up to 90 years old, will you keep your soul or body for the last 60 years of your life?
7. Have you ever thought about death? How do you imagine how you will die?
8. After the above 7 questions, both or you will raise 3 similar characteristics of both of you.
9. During your life, what makes you feel most serene?
10. If it can change the way your adoptive parents grow, what will it be?
11. After the above questions, take 4 minutes to tell the other person about your life, as detailed as possible.
12. If you wake up in the morning if you have a new item or a new ability, what will it be?
Stage 2: Mounting
13. If there is a prophetic sphere that appears, it tells you about yourself, life, the future or whatever you wonder, what will you ask about this sphere?
14. Is there anything you want to do for a long time but haven't done it yet? Why don't you do it?
15. What is the greatest achievement in your life?
16. In friendship, what is your most important thing?
17. What is your most memorable memory?
18. What is your worst memory?
19. If you know that you only have one year to live, will you change your current lifestyle? Why?
20. For you, what does friendship mean?
21. What role does love and emotions play in your life?
22. Filter out 5 positive points of the opposite then share this with them, sharing content can be stories or just related to the points to say.
23. Do you stick with your family? Do you feel that your childhood is happier than others?
24. Do you and your mother have a good relationship?
Stage 3: Sharing
25. Each person will say 3 sentences with the pronoun "we". For example: "We share a common interest is .".
26. Complete the sentence "I hope I have someone to share with ." (of course, perfect and tell the other person).
27. If you feel connected to the other person, share what you think is important to the other person.
28. Tell the other person what you like about them, you need to be honest and don't be shy even if you just met.
29. After all, share with the other the most embarrassing moment in your life.
30. When was the last time someone else made you cry? When was the last time you cried because of your best friend?
31. Tell the other person what you like best about them, this may be a personality or even the way they laugh or talk.
32. What would be a joke?
33. If you die tonight and you don't have the opportunity to contact anyone, you'll regret it for not saying anything? Why haven't you done that until now?
34. If your house is living with all the furniture in it burned. After saving your loved ones, pets, you only have enough time to save a single item in the house, what will it be? Why?
35. The death of someone in your family has made you most depressed? Why?
36. This is the last step, share your troubles then ask the person opposite to how to solve it. At the same time ask the other person what you look like when you mention that problem, the question may be as simple as "did I look so bad recently?".
The whole process is complete, to make things more certain (if you want to go to a certain destination), invite the other person to go out alone. Highly personal questions will be a bridge to help two individuals get closer together. In his research, Arthur said:
"The key factor in forming a close relationship is to maintain, develop, engage and reveal your secrets."
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