What makes men not 'pretty' up

You often think: Being a man must have certain successes in life, but in life there are things that we cannot anticipate that make you fail miserably. Have you ever asked yourself why I never succeeded and why I was not "pretty" up?

The following article will help you partially answer those questions. If you feel like you have something like the following article, then change your motto to have a better life.

1. Men, when they were 30 years old, could not do this 5 things too poorly

1. Live without goals, clear direction

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The old people used to have the phrase "Young man at four directions" which means that he was a man living in this world, there was a need for direction and a clear goal to be successful in order to succeed. can do big things. And the men who live without will strive to be completely defeated, and that is easy to understand why you never "quite" up.

2. Too confident or self-deprecating about yourself

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The overconfident men are empty. Men who are too self-deprecating are cowardly and inferior. So in life we ​​need to train ourselves with a specific temperament. Do not be too confident and should not be too self-deprecating because something is too unlikely to be as good as you think. For example, if you go for a girl, you are too confident will make the other person uncomfortable, if you are too self-deprecating, she will think about how you are. So just fit enough so you can get started on doing everything. Sufficient confidence will help you easily grasp the opportunity, not let it slip out of hand and regret.

No one appreciates a person who is too illusory about himself. But no one recognized a man who was always self-deprecating and worried. The atmosphere of an equally important man is shown out. Sometimes just because the actions are too confident or too self-deprecating will make us not get anything.

3. Have thoughts based on women

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Men who always have thoughts that always hide behind women's skirts are definitely nothing. Even if it was an equal age for men and women, if in a relationship a man has a thought that "I just love you and the whole world for my girlfriend to worry" then surely the relationship of the last two It won't go anywhere.

No matter how strong a girl is outside the society, when they fall in love, they will become weak against the person they love, so they need protection and protection. So if you are a woman who relies only on women, then you will probably never get better, let alone be successful.

4. An ordinary player

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This word should probably be more appropriate for women. But up to this age, modern women never succumbed and destined, many women were much more successful than men, so why are you still stalling and living quietly until the end? life like that? Remember that successful men often experience the turbulence of life to create a strong and successful man.

Being a man, why can we live as weak as a woman's? The man must be bold and unobstructed by the dew wind and difficulty. That means facing the difficulties of life, daring to do and dare to change yourself, for example, you can give up a job that you feel boring, unsuitable for you and start with a something new and more suitable for you. Don't be afraid of danger, don't be afraid of risk, but accept the challenge of life to help you get to the path of success. It is then that life is truly meaningful.

5. Self-giving is the most

Today most men always give their ego too high and do not think about what others think of them, which is the reason why you encounter failures in work and life. Perhaps no one could ever favor a man who always considered himself the universal navel. To succeed first man must know who he is, standing in any position and must assess what the opponent is and what he needs to be able to achieve your desired success.

6. Too lustful

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Break up with your lover you think the whole world collapses in front of you and enters the path of despair and boredom that you don't want to do. You always sink in suffering all day affected by love, crying, brooding and even ignoring life just because a broken love is the most failed image.

Say what you say, men want to mature, do not be mushy, deep-willed, but the situation is too much to be able to get better. Change immediately if you don't want to be underestimated by women!