How to talk and confide in your children effectively

Talking, confiding with children is a difficult task for many parents and children. Many parents often complain that children are less likely to talk about school events. However, the problem here is not because of the children but by the parents themselves who are wrong in the opening of the story with the children. When talking to parents, they often ask their children, "Are you happy today?" - most parents ask that question. Surely their answers will be "very happy" or "normal". Some questions that parents ask sometimes make children feel uncomfortable and meaningless.

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Therefore, instead of asking those questions, parents can refer to some questions, opening the following interesting story to create a sense of excitement for children, to help children and parents Have a more interesting conversation.

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1. What makes you smile today?

2. Can I tell you what good things you did or did you see?

3. Did you find any good work? How did you react?

4. Do you all have players with you during recess?

5. What book did the teacher read to you today?

6. From which week is the most impressive child?

7. Does anyone do something that makes you laugh?

8. Do you cry?

9. What did you do creatively?

10. What is a popular game during recess?

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11. What is the funniest thing happening today?

12. Who are you helping today?

13. Did you say thank you today?

14. Who did you sit for lunch with?

15. What makes you laugh today?

16. Is there anything you learn that you don't understand?

17. Who is trying to be with you today?

18. What is the best thing for you and what makes you most disappointed?

19. What makes you dislike the most in the day?

20. Is my class absent today?

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21. Do you ever feel unsafe?

22. What surprised me when I heard it?

23. What is it that makes you think?

24. Who did you play with today?

25. Tell me what I know today but I didn't know yesterday.

26. What made it difficult for you?

27. Is anyone happy today? Do you make you happy?

28. Do you like your lunch?

29. How much do you rate your day on a scale of 1 to 10?

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30. Have you had any trouble today?

31. How brave have you been today?

32. What questions did you ask today at school?

33. Tell me the two most impressive things of the day?

34. What do you want tomorrow?

35. What are you reading?

36. What is the school's toughest rule today?

37. Show me what you don't know.

38. If you could change something during the day, what would you change?

39. How do I prepare for the history test? Or, do you have something to say (for older children)?

40. Who is the child who shared snacks during lunch?

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41. What makes your teacher laugh? What made you frown?

42. What kind of person are you today?

43. What makes you feel happy?

44. What makes you feel proud of yourself?

45. What makes you feel like you?

46. ​​Have you learned any new words today?

47. What is one thing I hope to study before the end of the school year?

48. If you could change seats with anyone in the class, who would that person be? Why?

49. What do you like and dislike most in school rules?

50. If you change your role with your teacher tomorrow, what will you teach in class?