6 ways to have a happy love

Love is something very sacred and noble, which makes every one of us yearn for a happy love. But how to get a happy love? In fact, many of us are in an unhappy relationship or maybe they love each other but don't know how to have a happy love. That's why many couples love each other for a long time, but because they don't feel happy from love, it is normal to break up. If you want to create a perfect relationship, a beautiful love, then follow these 6 rules:

1. Chat together every day

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One of the most common problems for couples who love each other for a long time is that both start "bored" talking to each other. Time to love each other so long makes them understand their opponent from work to the time of each other, so the conversation often takes place short and boring by repeated questions such as "You are doing what's up?" or "How is work?" These are just "coping" questions because without asking, they also know the answer. So in order to help love be more happy and new, try changing some of the ways to talk to help make your story more interesting like "Are you having fun today?" With such gentle caring, the two will surely feel each other's feelings and you will not feel boredom, the conversation will be more interesting and it will give you two chances to close each other more than when they both can confide in each other.

2. Speak up about your needs

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Most women now want their lovers to understand their thoughts and feelings to meet their needs. But this is really inappropriate, especially for men, it is very difficult, because if you do not guess your thoughts correctly, you will feel sad and disappointed and chances are that you two will have an argument. It really won't be good for your love.

3. Write your thoughts before talking to the person

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When you are frustrated, you get angry easily and at times you will not avoid unnecessary conflicts between the two. The best way is that you should calmly sit down and write what you are thinking out of paper. This is the best way to reassure your emotions and help you find the root of the problem. Then sit up and talk straight to the person, when you talk about the problem with the person, you will feel calm and less likely to say something bad. It also means you will have a more positive attitude about problem solving.

4. Don't complain about that person to your friends

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Most girls who meet unhappy or frivolous things with lovers often come to their friends to be able to relieve their hearts, and receive support and encouragement from close friends. . When we go complaining to our friends, we often say bad things about the person to protect our image in front of our friends. But that is not really good, because you are accidentally "bad" your friend's view of that person. This is really not good at all. If you want to maintain a perfect relationship then you should try to talk to that person first instead of friends.

5. Don't be too mindful of small things

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One of the most important issues that makes the relationship rift is "too much attention". When the other person accidentally does things that make you unhappy they don't know, even if it's very small, you get angry and angry. Behavior like this indicates that there is a serious problem existing in the relationship, but instead of solving both of you continue to bother, obsessed about it.

In short, to be able to create and maintain a long-term, good relationship, each person must try to think more freely, positively and remind himself every day that happiness is built on patience, love and understanding - not resentment and pettyness.

6. Don't forget to share

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Can share joy, sadness with a lover is also a kind of happiness. It is because of keeping in mind the doubts, doubts, sadness and warmth . that couples always have emotional problems. Because you can't tell the opponent clearly and you don't know what the other person thinks. So, one of the factors that determines the success of love is: don't forget to share your feelings. Also, don't forget to share your hobbies and interests so that your partner can understand more about you and you will be right with yourself, not "bracing yourself" to become someone strange.