Even though the afternoon, the child was born easily but Vietnamese parents still did

Teaching children has never been an easy task for parents, teaching children how to be able to be a useful person for society always makes Vietnamese parents have a headache. Many parents are confused about how to handle when their children are not obedient, whining, instead of teaching them to understand, they yell at them, even in the direction of their will , over time their habits spoiled and in the child's awareness, making children become disobedient and not afraid of their parents' threats.

How to give love

Even though the afternoon, the child was born easily but Vietnamese parents still did Picture 1

In today's modern life, we can easily find in most parents too love children but do not know how to express properly. It can be seen that many parents fall into passive situations when educating their children, despite trying to give them love from their families, but what they get back from their feelings is immensely little. Why do parents take care of their children's needs, but they do not understand their parents, even making them suffer?

Today parents and children are getting more and more distant, parents do not understand their children and vice versa, they cannot understand the feelings of their parents? Perhaps the cause comes from the fact that parents and children do not give each other the opportunity to understand each other . With a growing life, there is no hardship as in the past, so parents try to protect, protect their children, make up for most of their needs so that they are no longer in need. mine. Children who grow up in parental protection also have advantages such as developing intelligence, self-confidence and self-esteem higher than those who are not covered, but also the very well-wrapped ones. There are also many shortcomings.

Many parents always " put themselves in your shoes " and only know to meet their needs. How to express my love to my children by giving a lot, what I like to buy for my children, give me lots of money, lots of toys . Show that the more love, the bigger the love.

Their actions have been envisioned to spoil the children, make them only receive, not share, making them think that everything in this world has an easy way if they I want to. Parents did not give their children the opportunity to understand their parents, understand the hardship, hardship, without the opportunity to foster their gratitude to parents and society.

In order to be able to love and understand the children in the best way, scientists recommend that parents should step into their inner world, be friends with their children and confide in their children so that parents and children can understand get together, understand your child's real wishes, help parents and children understand each other better

Soothe yourself by having a baby

Even though the afternoon, the child was born easily but Vietnamese parents still did Picture 2

It can be seen that in the old families with 4-5 children, the love of parents will be shared the most. As for families like today there are only 1-2 children, so all love will be devoted to them and also the only hope, the only future of the whole family.

The parents have gone through two periods of poverty and well-being, when at the subsidy period, parents wanted to spoil their children but the family's economic conditions were still difficult, eating and playing were still in need. so in modern times they do not want their children to endure the hardships they have experienced so they try to make up for them fully .

Children cannot meet what they want, so now they try to make and fulfill their children. Not only in any family, rich or poor, they still try to " tighten their belts " to give their children the fullest life.

In their parents' mindset, the compensation for their children now is to compensate for their hard days, which also helps them to have some comfort in a miserable childhood, but the compensations themselves. backfilling that excess is a double-edged sword that causes parents to harm their children.

Erich Fromm, an American psychologist once said one sentence: Love is an art, we need to learn to grasp it . That's why every mother and father must go through a process of exploration and effort to understand what love is.