7 reasons why most people are 'afraid' of love

Sometimes we dare not admit our "half", even though he or she is totally worthy and suits you.The fear of love can make you lose happiness and love in life.Here are 7 reasons why most people are "afraid" of love , read and feel whether those reasons are the same as you!

1. Unrealistic expectations

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In the present era, you can easily read a series of stories, articles or watch romantic movies about love .They help you sketch the ideal model of your partner in the future, but it also makes you compare to the person who is currently with you.Suddenly, you realize that the standards that you are expecting are not met, suddenly you feel disappointed about them.

Love means finding someone who is in tune with you, but then is affected by the admiration of those around you that give rise to conflicts in your mind when you bring your own love to compare. You expect something that fits the social norms, according to the criteria of those around you instead of the harmony in your souls.

2. Afraid to lose yourself

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When a person finds the person they love, they will accept all their personalities and interests and fight despite any inconsistencies in their thinking for their love. Therefore, the initial image that they have together is overshadowed, there will be differences between the present person and the person you love in the past.

3. Fear of being abandoned

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" Kakorrhaphiophobia " is the term used to refer to a fear of being abandoned in love. When love arises, it is also when emotions appear, these emotions act as lava because they can revive a land or destroy that land. Therefore, the fear of abandonment can occur at any stage in their relationship.

4. Experience pain from the past

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We all know what is present (personality or behavior) as a result of the past. Therefore, whenever you evaluate something, you will probably tend to decide in a direction that has happened in the past. What deeply influences you will always keep your image in mind and this makes you feel more difficult when making decisions in the future. Because images of the past can create conflicts with your new situation.

5. Fear of failure

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People often say: " Love is a miracle and magic is just an illusion ". The miracle of love will help spread its "fragrance" as soon as you accompany it. But even if the scent is a rose scent, it is natural to have " any rose without thorns ". Therefore, the failure of love also has the chance of chance, like a game of chance when you flip a coin up. Fear of failure is an overly natural reaction, helping us to resist relationships that don't come naturally.

6. New relationships affect old relationships

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Your family relationship can be broken as soon as the person you love appears and walks into your daily life.Priority positions will change over time.Sometimes, you justify yourself that your lover has no effect on other relationships.The people you have been at the top of your priority list are now down to the second place. Because your first position is now the one you love.The fight for the first position may be closed, simply the rule of love you need to exchange for every decision you make because it can affect you in the future.

7. Love does not come alone

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When love appears in your life, it not only goes "alone" but also accompanies responsibility , time and space needs for loved ones. Love can become a serious distraction for those who are fulfilling the ideal of life, because love and time are often proportional to each other. You can do it if you want. After a certain time, your love will be strengthened and stronger. You will want to spend your free time with the person you love, it even takes time to work for your goals. However, this depends on the case. Some others decide not to sleep at night to invest in both love and work.