39 tips to help you become 'everyone likes'

Some people were born with a natural charm - able to attract the attention of everyone in the room in just a few seconds, simply by friendly handshakes or smiles. Meanwhile, many people are less fortunate. They persistently practice, finding the secrets to becoming attractive in the eyes of others but still not achieving the expected results.

Andrew Thomas - author of this article on Inc. Magazine. He also admitted that he used to be someone who doesn't like it. Therefore, Thomas admires a person who has a charismatic personality, which makes the opposite person focus on listening to what they have to say. The way they shook hands, the way they complimented, the way they bowed ., all exuded a lightness, closeness and very subtle.

After a period of exposure and understanding, Thomas finally learned "tricks" to become more attractive to them and began to apply for himself. The result was amazing: from a "little" person who liked it, in the end, he caught the attention and always made everyone surprise every time he appeared.

So what is Thomas's secret? Very simply, just change your behavior and behavior according to the 39 bullet points below.

39 common points of special people

1. Actively listen.

2. Always create an impression right from the first meeting.

3. Responsible for mistakes.

4. Talking is done.

5. Respect everyone.

6. Ask questions instead of giving unfounded conjectures.

7. Always maintain a smile (sincere) on the face.

8. They live for themselves, not for others.

9. They change what they want.

10. Always remember the name of another person.

11. Be willing to ask others for help.

12. Not afraid to make mistakes.

13. Never forget to thank others.

14. Always motivate people.

15. No hurry and very confident when speaking.

16. Do not judge or judge others.

17. Sorry sincerely.

18. Forgive others.

19. Do not interrupt others.

20. Know how to praise.

21. Know how to accept praise.

22. Tell the truth, not false.

23. Know how to congratulate the success of others.

24. Using body language.

25. No criticism, no heavy words.

26. Direct all attention to the person opposite in the conversation.

27. Create comfort for others.

28. Don't win all the credit for yourself.

29. Maintain eye contact.

30. Let the enemy be the center of the story (not them).

31. Know how to connect to have memorable conversations.

32. Willing to admit mistakes immediately.

33. They are definitely.

34. Don't blame.

35. Not afraid of being hurt.

36. Not to exaggerate everything.

37. Smile at yourself.

38. Optimistic.

39. Not practical.

You may find these behaviors not only help us become a good person but also contribute to spreading a healthy lifestyle to others. This is absolutely not a special secret, magic or strategy. This is a way of life that can create a tremendous change for each person.

Conclusion

Meaningful changes will be triggered when you must be consistent with the smallest improvements every day. Focus on one or two behaviors on this list and practice it until they have become a habit before changing other behaviors.

If it is still unclear about the positive effects of the above 39 things, you can find out more carefully with the two books "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie and "Crucial Conversations" (Temporarily Translation: Decision negotiations) written by Al Switzler, Joseph Grenny, Kerry Patterson and Ron McMillan.