18 things you will not know until adulthood

Everyone will have to mature - sooner or later. Some people are afraid of "having to" grow up, some people want to grow up quickly, but there are also people who care to choose to wait for maturity to come naturally. No matter what group of people you belong to, there is nothing wrong with it. Because maturity is not wanted.

Don't be afraid to grow up.

There are people outside 30 who have not yet been recognized as adults.

There are 18 new people who are mature both in thinking, in relationships and in actions.

Growth is not just measured by age.

People who go ahead don't tell us what they face when they grow up. Probably, because they themselves have not accepted the harsh facts or they think we will understand it when we experience it directly.

However, not everyone is strong enough to face how many changes begin to mature.

Here are 18 lessons and also 18 things that only when we grow up will we realize.

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1. It will take a long time to find your way

Unless you are among the few lucky people who soon determine your goals, you will need more time to test each one before you can identify your true forte and dreams.

Actually, I don't want to grow up. But this is not something that I can control - Dieu Lac Tam (Wolf and piano).

Don't be afraid to try and fail. "Trial and error" is the best way to locate yourself. You will grow up much at the age of 20 by yearning to explore and challenge yourself. Use this time to understand yourself most clearly, not because you will not change again later, but because this is the perfect time to listen and understand yourself, to know yourself. What to expect and what can be offered to this world.

2. Don't expect a calm life

There will be many challenges, obstacles and turns appearing on your way. Keep calmly accepting events that happen in life. Do not negate or confront reality because doing so will only hurt yourself. If you stand in front of an open door and a door that you are trying to break through, sometimes the reception of an open door is the right choice.

In other words, don't try to be someone or something that's not yourself.

3. Learn how to manage money now

Learn how to plan and manage your money. You should know how to spend reasonably, open a bank account, use credit cards wisely as well as be able to live without inheritance. In the future you will be glad to have learned these things early. Buy good quality items that can be used long term instead of expensive ones that you can't use for more than a year.

Invest in self-development, cultivate knowledge, health and develop relationships with people around you.

4. Ready to receive change

Change is a necessity of life, not confrontation, but learn to adapt to it. You need to learn from experience and grow up from mistakes. Should give up things you can't change. Sometimes the change will make you so painful that you want to rip your heart, but the wound will heal if you strongly stand up and believe that everything will be fine.

It is wrong to be human; tripping is normal; can laugh at yourself as an adult. William Arthur Ward

Whether you win or fail, life will continue and you will have other opportunities to start over even if things don't go as planned.

5. There are many options for a plan

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Talk about plans, make them comfortable and flexible. It will be good if you have a plan of what you want to do and want to be in the next few years. But the truth is no one knows what will happen tomorrow, let alone think about five years later. It is better if you have a flexible and ready plan to change. Remember that the change of life and people will turn away all your intentions.

Don't waste time tormenting yourself because of a failure to plan, focus on setting new goals to continue pursuing.

6. Time is limited

Nothing is forever. Enjoy every moment you have and live every moment as it will pass very quickly. Life always has ups and downs and full of surprises nobody knows before. So appreciating those beautiful moments in life is very important, because you will need to remember them to overcome difficult times.

If adolescence and youth are anything other than fantasy, is it not a mature ambition? Vincent Van Gogh.

The first 10 years after high school will pass by with a dizzying speed and before you realize it, you have turned 28 and are wondering who stole your time!

7. Life is extremely harsh

When you were a teenager, you only knew the first lessons of life."Life is an unpleasant teacher. First you will be given tests, then you will be taught how to do it." Life will throw everything that it can throw at you; it will squeeze and strangle you until you can't breathe anymore, but you can't stop that from happening.

8. We have only one youth to live

Enjoy the youth when you're still young! It seems obvious that many people forget it. Ignore what you have to do in the "bucket list" (the list of things to do before you die) as much as possible when you're young, because no one knows how much time you actually have.

Don't wait until you're old and can't or can't do things that you really want to experience.

I live with painful loneliness in my youth but sweet in my adult years. Albert Einstein

Seriously, you can be poor in adolescence, that's not a big deal. You also have plenty of time to make money and be stable. Travel, discover and do what your heart desires right now. You can still get married, have a family, have children and start a business when you are 20 if you want, but you should try to balance your life between responsibility and joy. The final advice is to rethink the opportunities you missed.

9. Appreciate health

When you get into the final years of your 20s and start 30, your body starts to lose its energy and energy transfer. You start having pain and often have to go to bed earlier. To extend youth, avoid aging, eat well, exercise regularly, take care of not only physical but also soul. Do not do the inspiration but consider it a must.

10. Attitude determines your position

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Keeping a good attitude can make all the difference in your life. Everything will be easier and happier when you have a positive outlook. Therefore, keep your attitude happy and flexible when interacting with others and with the challenges of life.

11. How to treat others

Treating people with respect and courtesy will help you go further. You will be respected by others if you treat them well. Don't allow yourself to insult others anywhere or force them to blame for anything. Take responsibility for yourself, your actions and emotions.

The adventure of life is learning. The purpose of life is maturity. The nature of life is change. The challenge of life is to overcome. The essence of life is caring. The opportunity of life is to serve. The secret of life is to do it. The taste of life is to help. The beauty of life is giving. William Arthur Ward

12. Not easy to have a relationship

In general, relationships are difficult to build, not only in couples but also family and friends relationships. Stay in touch with people you really care about and people who really care about you.

Older age also means you have fewer friends and may lose some friends. It is not too heavy, because not everyone who comes in your life will be with you forever. Let them go and give love to those who stay.

13. Accept changes in relationships

Look back at the time with your ex and respect. Even if the broken mirror cannot heal, at least, you have had an experience and learned something from it.

Do not think that what is not with you for life is not meaningful. Because sometimes, there are valuable things that are extremely important to us at some stage of life and that is enough.

When you grow up, especially when you are married, spending time with friends will be more difficult than before. Not really because of you. Everyone will have their own life and when they are older in life, each person's interest will gradually shift in a different direction. So accept the change and find a way to keep them.

14. Capture every opportunity

The greatest success of every human being is after the maturity process retains its own integrity without turning around the changes of life. Simply stronger and more tolerant. Noname

Life is to seize opportunities, take opportunities and take risks. Don't be afraid of new challenges, go to a place that has never set foot, change jobs, meet strangers and learn new things.

15. Exit expectations

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Expectations are the cause of every break. Most of our expectations are too high compared to the surrounding conditions as well as ourselves. Nobody is perfect and there is nothing to achieve perfection. Need to get rid of false expectations or out of reach. The sooner you realize this, the easier it will be for life. Expectations that only bring suffering, are not useful.

Don't expect anything. Cherish everything.

16. Life is trouble but don't worry

Growth begins on the day we accept responsibility for our own actions. Richard L Evans

"A flow will have an ebb". Don't worry too much because that's the nature of life. Life is extremely complicated and complicated, but don't despair because everything will pass. Keep going and doing what you want. Don't be too hard on yourself.

17. Cannot be stable overnight

If you do not find a way to solve the problems of life before age 30, trust me that you are not the only case. If you haven't found a place in your life or career, don't worry, you still have time. Many people never find out what they really want to do, but on the contrary they get a lot of experience, learn new things and cultivate their skills through a variety of jobs.

If you know what you want to do in your life, start it right away, practice as much as possible and you will progress quickly.

18. Open your heart and love more

Always be patient, empathetic, understanding, caring and gentle with the people around you. Please share and listen to them attentively. People always like to talk about themselves, so the more you ask, the more interested they are. Love others because they are themselves and realize that each person is a great product of creation!

Life is an unfinished work that we cannot know the end. We are all on the path to finding happiness and confusion because we have not found fullness. Remember that life is a journey and happiness is on the journey itself, not in the destination.