Simple happiness, just learn how to forget and forgive

Modern life is always full of gossip, wrongdoing, murder, robbery . Every day, there are so many articles mentioning negative topics and because of these sensational topics, it's very many people were swirled. We treat it as something to talk about, argue with, even loudly because we want to protect our views. We talk about the life and work of someone who does not know and make judgments while only knowing about them through several unconfirmed sources of information. We are lost in our thoughts and worries about the surrounding so that every day, we will not change. Life has so many surprises and if we don't learn how to forget, how to forgive, don't learn how to "ignore" what is needed, we will never escape that vicious cycle.

Why learn to forget?

There is a story like this:

One evening, I went to visit a friend who had been slandered. At dinner, he received a phone call, the person in the phone wanted to tell him who had harmed him.

But my friend refused to listen. Seeing my surprised face, he said, "What about it? Life has things that don't need to be known and there are things that need to be forgotten. Because I chose to ignore them, which means I don't need to. I need to find out who they are. I am safe, that is very lucky. "

The more you are obsessed with what happened, the more negative energy pulls you down

Your thoughts, though difficult to explain, can cause the energy to burn. The more you think negatively, the worse you make things around. You lose faith in life, you want to crush all things and the sad thing is, only you are tormenting yourself. What happened, in fact, they were no longer present.

The law of attraction

According to Jack Canfield (The author of the famous book: The Magnet - The Secret of the Law of Attraction ): "The law of gravitation is the most powerful rule in the universe. Like gravity, it always works and always moving, right now, it is also operating in your life. " This can be understood simply because you will be attracted to everything you focus on. You direct your faith and put your energy into positive things, you will attract more good things to your own life. Conversely, if you just keep thinking about negative things, your life will become very deadlocked.

Human life is not always possible. Sometimes to make yourself happy, each person needs to reduce the pressure on himself and the best way to reduce pressure is to learn to forget, because in this life there are things to pick up and drop in time.

Learning to forget is not a bad thing but a balance. Accept, be sincere and calmly face life. If we are constantly tormented by other people's mistakes or weaknesses, we will be excluded from the circle of happiness.

In Buddhist scriptures there is a story that says:

The venerable monk and the venerable old man went along the coast, the noble subordinate reverently revered by the master. Upon reaching the river bank, a girl wanted to cross the river, the venerable old piggybacked the girl across the river, the girl thanked him and walked away, the venerable monk kept wondering: "How can Teacher carry a girl over river like that? ". But he did not dare to ask, so he kept going for 20 miles, he really could not help but ask his teacher: "We are monks, why can you carry a girl across the river?" Master said calmly: "I carried the girl across the river and put her down, and then you carried her 20 miles to carry her and still haven't dropped it."

Human life is a long journey that we ourselves only know the next destination when we really come. No one knows in advance or anticipates the future. We must constantly walk on that path and no matter what each person's choice is, they all move, not one stops. You will see a lot of scenery, sometimes beautiful, sometimes dark, sometimes steep, bumpy . making you just want to stop. If we bring all these things to remember in our hearts, we ourselves only have more and more unnecessary burdens. Think of childhood. It is rare for anyone to remember everything that happened in the past, except for good memories, deep things. The Creator has cleverly set this up and we can completely forget a lot of things in exchange for good things.

The more extensive the experience, the more "experience" the greater the pressure. Instead, forget for a bit, throw away a bit to make things lighter on the road.What has passed is never regained except to be engraved with the mind of life's experiences, living every moment and loving all.

4 people need forgiveness in life

According to speaker Brian Tracy , there are 4 people we need to forgive in life if we want to learn to live. First, it is the parents , whether they are with us or not. Because every mistake they have made, either accidentally or intentionally, is to take care of and nurture ourselves. Instead of complaining, blame, be grateful that your parents have exchanged your whole life for you the best. Right now, you are surfing the web to relax, you read or see what you like, you are free to do everything you want . so if you are still poor or still not successful, it is because of you not by anyone.

Right now, if you still have thoughts of anger or dissatisfaction with your parents something, you can call home, be honest and tell them your regret. Simple action but not everyone is brave enough to do this will mean more to parents than any other material gift.

If you do not forgive your parents (when they have made a mistake), you will remain a child forever. You do not give yourself the opportunity to become a fully aware, mature person. You continue to consider yourself a victim. Worse, you keep negative thoughts in your head and are constantly obsessed with them. You may forget so please forgive yourself. Your parents absolutely deserve it.

The second person you need to forgive is your spouse . You have the right to be angry but you also have the right to choose if your partner's feelings have changed. Does it mean that with a coercive relationship when both are no longer the same, make you happy or just make your life worse? Does the torment make you happy? If the answer is no, choose to give up and forgive.

The third person you need to forgive is everyone else in your life , including those who have hurt you. Throw them away so that you can welcome the love that awaits you. Whether it's a boss, a business partner, a friend, someone across the road or anyone else.

And the last person to forgive is yourself.

Forgive yourself, even if you have done something foolish, thoughtless. Maybe every day, you rush too fast on what you like and then accidentally make someone hurt or you go too slowly, causing yourself to miss something. Don't torment yourself, because just like that, you will gain experience for yourself. Don't compare yourself with someone and then find yourself moving too slowly, lacking in ability and being inferior to others. You are born to fulfill your mission.

'Spring with mixed flowers, moon collection. Lower wind is cool, winter has snow. In the heart, there is no trouble to worry about is the beautiful season of humanity. Remember those things that you need to remember, forget those that should be forgotten, live an open life, and have no problems in your life.