The secret to being beautiful: Always put yourself in the shoes of others

Placing yourself in the shoes of others is easy but not simple to do. Because in every human being there is always an "I", even that "I" is so big that we never want to lower ourselves to look at someone.

However, if this life we ​​all try to put ourselves in each other's position, it will be good. Put yourself in the position of your parents when you want to be a sub-model to be upset to not commit wrongdoing, put yourself in the position of your wife / husband to see the silent sacrifices for your family, Please put yourself in the position of children to understand your wishes, put yourself in colleagues, friends, and people around to see that everyone will have hidden secrets.

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The following story in Spring and Autumn will help you get a meaningful lesson:

"In a cold winter year, Te water falls continuously for 3 days and 3 nights, making people dare not go out. Those who have to leave home feel sad and worried because the road is difficult It affects everyone's life and pets, so everyone is looking forward to the end of this cold spell.

One day, Qi Jing Park wearing a fox fur coat sitting in front of a window watching the snow fall, his face clearly showing happiness. The Jing Qi admires the more and more beautiful scenery, only wants more and more snow to make this beauty more beautiful.

When the elder Yen Anh approached, Jing Jing Gong happily said, "This year the weather is strange, even though the snow has fallen for many days, we still feel warm like spring, not cold at all. Do you see that? "

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Yen Anh noticed that Qi Jing Gong was wearing fox fur, there was a burning fireplace in the room, so it felt strange to feel warm. After thinking, Yen Anh replied: "What is the cold air?"

Qi Jing Cong heard and nodded while laughing very happily. Seeing this, Yen Anh bluntly said: "Dai Vuong, I heard, the soldiers who are full of food will think of someone who is hungry, and when they are warm, they will think of someone who is cold, when they are comfortable and happy. I also think of someone who is working hard, but why, don't you worry about others? "

After hearing that, Qi Jing Gong blushed and was extremely embarrassed "

Does this story leave you with a valuable lesson?